Things to do to let him know you’re interested

Isn’t this every girl’s dream? To woo the guy that melts her, the guy her heart and soul are crushing on. Let him know that you're interested in him, do these little things and the results will be favorable! 

Simple things to do to let him know you’re interested

Well, girls it’s time we change our ancient approach to that! First things first, understand that guys think straight and do not always understand the sublime actions and reactions. Do not expect them to read between your lines, analyse and come to conclusions. We live in the 21^st century, gone are the days when the girl’s shyness and neglect mean she actually is interested in the guy. The game needs to be stepped up. Just as guys say they aren’t complicated neither do they indulge in complicated tasks of guess work in the trial of love. The female population needs to push up and bring out their bold side, giving strong enough reasons for their interest to seem genuine and believable. Let’s look at basic principles we could adapt in hinting these heart throbbers!

Act based on his personality trait

Do not generalize the male population! Each one doesn’t function the same. As the saying goes,” You may be the juiciest peach around but he may just not like peaches.” There are the shy kinds, the social kinds, the mysterious kinds, the ones that like being alone, the ones who love flirting around, there are few who prefer being among guys ,a few who like being only among girls, some who are very hobby oriented( focused on sports, music or career), there are the clingy types, the Moody ones, the ones who love bullying, the goody two shoes, the bad boy kinds, the geek freaks, the overly sweet ones aka super gentlemen, the perverts and not to forget the psychedelic trippy ones. Know the kind you want to base your interest on and gel with them on that level. Don’t go over the top, just make them feel comfortable.

Do not play hard to get

Girls, if you want something, please leave your ego aside. Be welcoming and smile when you see them. Go for short small talks which you should initiate. There should be a slight spark showing that you want to talk to them. Do not showcase your attitude. Be yourself.

Take an effort

In small things, maybe a good morning text or a conscious effort to check up on what he’s up to. Don’t seem desperate but initiate whenever you can. Judge by the way he replies, if he’s genuinely interested or if it’s out of courtesy. Continue depending on that. Understand this, if a guy in interested, he’ll show it! Forcing the interest out of him means you’re heading in the wrong direction. So be patient.

Make him feel wanted

Try and show him that you aren’t the kind to hang out with many guys just to make him jealous. Let him see that you have eyes for only him . Make it obvious in small ways. Have the short span of eye contact to show that you’ve been waiting to see him.

Genuine personal interest and good conversations

Gaining more insight into his life and his perspectives, taking efforts to find out more about him, even the tiniest details may help. And share something about yourself that shows you’re comfortable with him as well. Showing you’re interested isn’t about flirting, engage in deep conversations about common issues or life enhancing information. Speak of things of common Interest but do not blindly nod your head for everything. Have your own individuality and likings. Differences can be well blended.

Write to him/send him songs that can give indirect hints

If you aren’t bold enough yet, convey it through poems or one liners. Even a song can do the trick.

There can be various approaches, but the bottom line is not following a process or draft, convey what comes naturally . All of us have a heart, you know what, trust your instincts and go for it. Be yourself. Always, always. Do not conform and Change to please someone else. Be genuine .

You’ll soon find that one who’s into peaches.